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Can I Open an Estate and Become the Personal Representative if I am the Mother-in-Law in NH?

Detailed Answer

Under New Hampshire law, only certain people qualify to open an estate and serve as personal representative. If there’s a valid will, the court gives priority to the person named as executor. See RSA 547:1. If the decedent died without a will, the court follows the order of priority in RSA 551:4.

In-laws—including a mother-in-law—do not appear among the first tiers (spouse, children, parents, siblings, etc.). However, RSA 551:4 VI allows the court to appoint “any other person deemed suitable” if no higher-priority person is available or willing. That means you may qualify to serve if:

  • No one in the statutory priority list is available or willing to serve.
  • The court finds you suitable and you consent to serve.

How to Open an Estate

To open an estate, you must file a petition with the Probate Court in the county where the decedent resided. Under RSA 547:2, your petition package generally must include:

  • A certified copy of the death certificate
  • The original will (if one exists)
  • The completed probate petition form
  • Your oath and any required bond (unless waived by the court or will)
  • The applicable filing fee

The court will verify there are no higher‐priority claimants, may schedule a hearing, and then issue Letters of Administration naming you as personal representative if approved.

Key Duties Once Appointed

  • Post bond unless the court waives this requirement or the will dispenses with it.
  • Publish a notice to creditors under RSA 547:12.
  • Prepare and file an inventory of assets under RSA 547:11.
  • Distribute assets according to the will or intestacy rules.
  • File a final account and petition for discharge when administration is complete.

Disclaimer: This article is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Consult a qualified attorney in New Hampshire for guidance on your specific situation.

Helpful Hints

  • Contact your county Probate Court to confirm local forms, fees, and deadlines.
  • Gather detailed information on all estate assets before filing.
  • Review whether the will waives bond to reduce costs.
  • Consider notifying potential heirs and interested parties early to avoid surprises.
  • If multiple relatives contest your appointment, consult a probate attorney.

The information on this site is for general informational purposes only, may be outdated, and is not legal advice; do not rely on it without consulting your own attorney.